tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post4117968304619940744..comments2023-10-02T08:25:43.228-04:00Comments on Welcome To Our Garden: Another long postKim aka Mommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10806136226827843010noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-38900654853727132382007-12-14T20:46:00.000-05:002007-12-14T20:46:00.000-05:00give yourselves time - your body so needs to heal ...give yourselves time - your body so needs to heal - my opinion is just that of course - that you wait at least 7-9 months before you even try.<BR/><BR/>You so deserve to have a sweet lovely child - changing doners sounds right. Stay safe and well...<BR/><BR/>PalestarPalestarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05092132668977332841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-83436474277007929412007-12-14T08:17:00.000-05:002007-12-14T08:17:00.000-05:00I am glad the exam went well and you are physicall...I am glad the exam went well and you are physically doing well. Sorry about the waiting room thing. You will be one of those smiling pregnant ladies again. I thnk I would change donors as well, couldn't hurt. Might help. Here's to 2008. <BR/>Hugs.Alihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01508611373270418684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-84722769172933783072007-12-13T20:12:00.000-05:002007-12-13T20:12:00.000-05:00I'm really happy to hear that you two are trying a...I'm really happy to hear that you two are trying again. You will be amazing parents- a baby deserves a loving coupel like you! This will happen for you this year. Glad to hear that Christmas #1 went well!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-29403259354781811632007-12-13T16:29:00.000-05:002007-12-13T16:29:00.000-05:00I am thrilled to see you both are back online...wi...I am thrilled to see you both are back online...with a revived determination. Know that I, too, have become a big fan of both of you and will be right beside you both on this journey to motherhood.. <BR/><BR/>Keep the faith....pjAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-19484068039671649892007-12-13T15:50:00.000-05:002007-12-13T15:50:00.000-05:00YAY, I am so happy to hear that. It is so hard to ...YAY, I am so happy to hear that. It is so hard to imagine trying again after a miscarriage, but eventually that's all you want to do.Merrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10372786842856581426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-19559408146082951882007-12-13T13:08:00.000-05:002007-12-13T13:08:00.000-05:00although our stories are kind of different, i know...although our stories are kind of different, i know that feeling all too well--sitting in that drs office w/ all those happy pregnant women. i also know that it may be difficult for you to understand now but i truly believe everything happens for a reason. you and m are blessed to have each other and i KNOW that one day soon you two will be the moms that you long to be. i'm happy you aren't giving up... thinking of you both! xoLizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01743589613187522989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-26465771336338785792007-12-13T11:18:00.000-05:002007-12-13T11:18:00.000-05:00I'm glad the exam went well- it sounds like your p...I'm glad the exam went well- it sounds like your provider is very understanding and willing to take the time necessary for you. That's a wonderful thing to find!<BR/><BR/>Welcome back to TTC - lots of fingers crossed for a 2008 baby!!Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08541457131291401237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-28719967604899434102007-12-13T07:21:00.000-05:002007-12-13T07:21:00.000-05:00I am so happ that you guys are going to try again....I am so happ that you guys are going to try again....you BOTH deserve a baby.....my prayers are with you guys....love ya....Mimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01487391785570138766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-46492361911553840332007-12-12T20:57:00.000-05:002007-12-12T20:57:00.000-05:00Oh I am so happy for you guys. I am sorry that yo...Oh I am so happy for you guys. I am sorry that you had to sit in that waiting room by yourself. If I could have been there I would (even as strange as having a complete stranger sitting next to you in a dr's waiting room could be).<BR/>Best of luck in 2008!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02377380460921716100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-40153107728223230092007-12-12T19:05:00.000-05:002007-12-12T19:05:00.000-05:00I'm so glad to hear that you are physically okay a...I'm so glad to hear that you are physically okay and your body is healing the way it should. You are SO INCREDIBLY BRAVE to be trying again in the new year. I'm so awed by your resilience! I will be cheering along every step of the way.tbeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06845011825238450567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-82785658761967235912007-12-12T15:58:00.000-05:002007-12-12T15:58:00.000-05:00Okay, NOW I have tears. Thrilled to hear you are ...Okay, NOW I have tears. Thrilled to hear you are physically healthy and that you guys aren't giving up. Switching donors is a good idea too. Awh...I am routing for you guys more than you know! Here's to healthy, happy 2008 babies for all us TTC girls out there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-70305426657057280252007-12-12T15:52:00.000-05:002007-12-12T15:52:00.000-05:00Make them do the tests! I think that rule about 3 ...Make them do the tests! I think that rule about 3 miscarriages is so cruel. My sister had a miscarriage at 4 months, it was devastating and thank god her doctor did the tests. Found out she did have a problem (factor five leiden, a blood clotting thing) that was TOTALLY MANAGEABLE and now she has a healthy baby (2nd pregancy). To think they might have made her go through that hell 3 times is so cruel. Sending love your way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-2395264405110764422007-12-12T14:15:00.000-05:002007-12-12T14:15:00.000-05:00Here's to a most fruitful and fertile 2008!Here's to a most fruitful and fertile 2008!Two Mamashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12859688484145684024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-13221207298923552552007-12-12T13:59:00.000-05:002007-12-12T13:59:00.000-05:00Glad you are healthy. I think that rule about not...Glad you are healthy. I think that rule about not investigating m/c until after your 3rd is ridiculous! And it is 3 in a row. My sister had 2 but had a baby in between so her count started over. Thank God she had another healthy baby after. I'm glad you are trying again...I think you have so much love to share with a child. I'm cheering you on!!!j.k-c.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10743129443451601230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-37765836359929938382007-12-12T13:52:00.000-05:002007-12-12T13:52:00.000-05:00Such a sad post. I have this picture of you sittin...Such a sad post. I have this picture of you sitting, bereft, in the waiting room. I'm so sorry. I hope you never have to go through that again and that 2008 is the year when your happy, healthy baby is born full term and your family life start. Good luck. I think you are both so brave and a great example to us all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-11819459819863835332007-12-12T13:20:00.000-05:002007-12-12T13:20:00.000-05:00Oh guys... I am so glad you are going to get to tr...Oh guys... I am so glad you are going to get to trying again soon. Here's to a great 2008 for you guys!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13194940947748022677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-15662939941129376742007-12-12T13:07:00.000-05:002007-12-12T13:07:00.000-05:00I am so, so sorry this happened to you. I have als...I am so, so sorry this happened to you. I have also had two miscarriages and feel I have some idea of what you are going through.<BR/><BR/>After my second miscarriage I asked the sperm bank for statistics on donors I was considering. It turned out that the donor that had gotten me pregnant twice had a higher rate (26% -- which is still in the range of normal) than other donors (like 7%).<BR/><BR/>I am pregnant again -- after ditching Miscarriage Man -- and while it is too early to know if this will succeed (hit 12 weeks today), I have made it farther this time than any other. <BR/><BR/>Finally -- I had a pathology done after my second D&C, and it revealed a trisomy -- a genetic abnormality that the embryos (like yours, it was identical twins) could not have survived. Having that information was a tremendous relief. Your OB's office can't do that? I thought it was standard practice to evaluate tissue removed in a D&C. <BR/><BR/>Again, I wish you healing and lots of love and support around the holidays and in the new year.aspiring bakerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05509278424414780644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-2526252968702608382007-12-12T12:54:00.000-05:002007-12-12T12:54:00.000-05:00I wish they had more answers for you. Something t...I wish they had more answers for you. Something to calm your hearts and minds.<BR/>2008 sounds like a GREAT time to have a baby :)<BR/>Good luck finding the perfect donor.K J and the kidshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11768311213861195548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-23377631738184311842007-12-12T12:41:00.001-05:002007-12-12T12:41:00.001-05:00I'm glad to see things are looking up. I'm sending...I'm glad to see things are looking up. I'm sending you all the positive mojo I can spare. *hugs*Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10978200945658510708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-51743984219472108132007-12-12T12:41:00.000-05:002007-12-12T12:41:00.000-05:00yeah to prenatals and trying again. enjoy the suns...yeah to prenatals and trying again. enjoy the sunshine in this strange state of ours.NotesFrom2Momshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07195743632120316529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-65973374297813697022007-12-12T12:04:00.000-05:002007-12-12T12:04:00.000-05:00I'm so glad to hear that your body is slowly getti...I'm so glad to hear that your body is slowly getting back to normal. I hope the new set of swimmers does the trick.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16696340051062851389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-83826365736819815922007-12-12T11:53:00.000-05:002007-12-12T11:53:00.000-05:00I am wishing and praying and hoping for a healthy ...I am wishing and praying and hoping for a healthy pregnancy for you girls next year.<BR/>Glad to hear your body is catching up.Kerihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00421177757957652536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8606414179583155065.post-65202879128350799602007-12-12T11:27:00.000-05:002007-12-12T11:27:00.000-05:00I am so happy you are in good health- if mostly ju...I am so happy you are in good health- if mostly just physically. I will continue to be your cheerleader for your ttc journey-<BR/>Lauralaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08588355359414641245noreply@blogger.com